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3 Simple Steps to Pull Yourself Out of Any Darkness
These are the simple (but hard) steps I used to pull myself out of the darkest moment of my adult life. Acknowledge what happened. You're...
Jan 192 min read


Winter Solstice Intentions
Yesterday, December 21, was the Winter Solstice. The day each year that has the shortest daylight and therefore, the longest night. It's...
Dec 22, 20241 min read


The "Let Them Theory"
Your mom's upset that you're not spending the holidays at her house. "Let her." Your partner doesn't want to do the 5k with you. "Let...
Dec 15, 20241 min read


Remember How Far You've Come
I think we've all heard healing is not linear. There's an ebb and flow to progress. But, what does that look like? For me, it comes up a...
Nov 24, 20242 min read


The Benefits of a Stable Self
I've been sober again for a few weeks now; I feel overwhelmed. There's so much to do in a day ... so much I want to accomplish. Writing...
Nov 17, 20241 min read


Desire is a drug to me.
When I was 23, my first serious boyfriend and I broke up. We had been dating for 4.5 years, and it was the kind of breakup that shattered...
Oct 27, 20241 min read


Loving the Darkness in Myself
I felt the effects of the full moon this week. The dogs in our neighborhood howled for a while this past Thursday. I guess they felt it...
Oct 20, 20241 min read


How to Erase Performance Anxiety
Sometimes life can feel serious. Like when others are counting on you to act a certain way. Or even more so, when you're expecting it...
Oct 6, 20241 min read


Do you believe in magic?
Belief is a powerful emotion. “Alice laughed. 'There's no use trying,' she said. 'One can't believe impossible things.' I daresay you...
Sep 2, 20241 min read


Sober Month Recap
For the past month of July, I tasked myself with no drugs or alcohol. (But, yes to caffeine. I drink about 30mg every few days of this...
Aug 1, 20242 min read


To Trust or Not to Trust
I'm a naive person. It's a battle I've been having my whole life. To trust or not to trust. In the past, I blindly trusted everyone....
Jul 27, 20241 min read


Moving Through Physical Pain
More precisely – neck pain. If you've ever had a severe crick in your neck, you know the feeling of immediate helplessness. The stabbing...
Jul 16, 20242 min read
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