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My Buddy in the Shadows

  • Writer: Lilly Scheibelhut
    Lilly Scheibelhut
  • Apr 14, 2024
  • 1 min read

Updated: Jul 23, 2024




When Mom's outside. Dozer's nearby.

Even when it's 80 out.


He finds his own way to survive in the world. He's my buddy through thick and thin, hot and cold.

His commitment and love is infectious.


He helps me connect to myself, constantly reminding me what matters most in life.


Whether that's to walk, to play, to eat –

or even to take a little shade from the heat.



Dozer outside laying in a thin shadow next to a fence. It looks hot outside and the grass is bright.



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